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Why Engagement Shoots Are Worth It (And How to Make the Most of Yours)

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April 17, 2025
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Planning your wedding comes with a lot of decisions — dress, venue, flowers, cake — and somewhere on that growing to-do list, someone probably mentioned an engagement shoot. You may be wondering: Is it really necessary? Do we need even more photos?

Short answer? Yes. And not just because they’re beautiful (though they really are). An engagement shoot is about so much more than a pretty set of pictures — it’s about comfort, connection, and capturing your love in a more relaxed, everyday way.

Let’s break down why they’re 100% worth it — and how to make the most of yours.


What Is an Engagement Shoot, Really?

An engagement shoot is a relaxed photo session with just the two of you, taken a few months (or more) before your wedding. It's often outdoors, informal, and all about capturing you in your natural element — no guests, no timelines, no pressure.


6 Reasons Engagement Shoots Are 100% Worth It

You’ll Get Comfortable in Front of the Camera

Most people aren’t used to having their photo taken — especially not for hours on end. An engagement shoot is like a warm-up session. You’ll get used to being photographed, and I’ll learn how you interact naturally so I can capture your best angles and genuine moments. By the time the wedding comes around, posing will feel natural - not nerve-wracking.

It Builds Trust with Your Photographer

This is a big one. Your wedding photographer is going to be by your side all day — sometimes more than your bridal party. The engagement shoot is where we build that rapport. You’ll see how I work, and I’ll learn what makes you laugh, relax, and connect.

You Get Beautiful, Personal Photos (That Aren’t in Wedding Attire)

You’ll love having gorgeous, professional photos of yourselves in your everyday clothes or favourite date spot. These are perfect for:

  • Save the dates

  • Wedding websites

  • Guest books

  • Wall art for your home

  • Social media countdowns

Bride laughing as she cuts the wedding cake with her new husband, sharing a playful and joyous moment together
Young child and bridesmaid share an embrace

It’s a Moment to Press Pause and Celebrate Your Relationship

Wedding planning can be overwhelming. This shoot is a chance to slow down, take a breath, and simply be together — no spreadsheets or seating plans in sight. Just you, your partner, and a lot of laughs.

You Can Choose a Meaningful Location

Whether it’s where you had your first date, your favourite weekend walk, or just a place that makes you both feel relaxed, your engagement shoot can take place anywhere — giving your photos a personal, emotional touch.

It Sets the Tone for Your Wedding Day Style

Like candid, relaxed shots? Or something more editorial? This is your chance to figure out what you love before the big day. Plus, you’ll get to see how your outfit, hair, and makeup choices translate on camera.


How to Make the Most of Your Engagement Shoot

✔️ Choose a Location You Love
Think meaningful, scenic, or just somewhere you feel happy. Beaches, forests, city streets, cafés — the vibe is totally up to you.

✔️ Plan for the Right Time of Day
Golden hour (the hour before sunset) gives that magical, soft light photographers love — and it makes skin tones look incredible.

✔️ Coordinate Outfits, But Keep It You
Aim for outfits that complement each other without matching too much. Avoid big logos or neon colours — and feel free to bring two looks if you’re unsure.

✔️ Be Yourselves
Don’t stress about posing — I’ll guide you the whole time. The best photos come from genuine moments: laughing, walking, whispering jokes. The more relaxed you are, the better.

✔️ Use It As a Date
Treat it as a fun afternoon together — maybe followed by dinner or drinks. When you're enjoying yourselves, it shines through every frame.


Final Thoughts

Engagement shoots are more than just a nice extra — they’re a brilliant way to prepare for the big day, celebrate your story, and capture your connection in a relaxed, real way. And when the wedding day comes? You’ll feel like total pros in front of the camera.

Want to chat about your own engagement session or see some examples? Get in touch today!


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